The Day Dawned
Saturday, 28 June, 2008
It was a grey start. And at breakfast I got something, probably a bit of bacon stuck between my teeth that no amount of brushing could dislodge. So my main memory of the morning was looking for a chemist so that I could buy some dental floss. We all had things that we needed to get before the wedding, Alyson needed to get new shoes and a handbag for the ceremony, whilst Geoff wanted to get a thimble with Fishguard written on it for his father. Other members of the group just wanted to wander around for a few hours before the main event kicked off.
As the morning progressed, the weather sland hang it up, slowly improved. The sky was visibly lightening and by noon the Sun was breaking through the clouds and I was certain that by the time of the wedding, there would be blue skies.
Time to get ready. The first thing I had done on arrival at Fishguard was to take the suit out of my bag so that there would be no creases in it. Not sure how many times I have worn this suit, probably less than a dozen times, to weddings or to funerals, though it was bought for my graduation. A nice light blue shirt and suitable blue tie completed the ensemble.
The Tara Hotel was a short walk from the Holy Name Church, so it seemed like a logical place to rendezvous before the ceremony. I could hear activity outside my window, The Groom had arrived, with the Best Man an photographs were being taken. I went downstairs and started snapping as well. One of my mother’s usual complaints is that I never have enough photographs of myself whenever I go anywhere. Always lots of nice photos of other people, but never ones of me. So I asked someone to take one of me in my suit, and then asked Jaime if she would have a p,hoto with me. She said that I had better not caption it as “Me and my Date”. My immediate thought was that I really did not want her mother to kill me, so that was never going to happen. I told her that a caption of “Me and my Daughter” would be more appropriate, but again, I don’t think Mel, Jaime’s mother would be best pleased with that either, and the suggestion went down like a cup of sick with Jaime herself.
Anyway, it was time to head off to the Church. The ceremony was due to start at 2pm, but I arrived at the Holy Name Roman Catholic Church in plenty of time. Russell, the Groom was doing his best to stay calm, be his usual happy go lucky self. However, it was obvious that he was nervous, suffering from all the niggling little paranoias that people experience on such special days. All the things that it was far too late to do anything about. Just sit back and let the day go where ever it want to go.
At just before 2pm, I ma de my way into the Church and sat down and awaited the arrival of the Bride.



























